Those who say that love is “only love” are wrong. Those who say that money is “just money” are definitely wrong. Those who think that a flight can’t change a life haven’t used a plane ticket properly. There are things which, when inexperienced, are difficult to conceive or to comprehend. If tomorrow is the same as today, you’ll remain the same limited person. But when change happens, then you will experience true growth, and possibly double or triple your current potential. Outside of your daily routine, or your so called “comfort zone” lay hidden treasures for those who dare to adventure.
There are examples which are so clear, that it’s almost like you can see your life in the palm of your hand. You love, you live. You have money, you exist. You travel, now you are living and existing. It’s not madness to seek a perfect model of a life full of beautiful adventures, or a quiet one with a family which you love and care about. For most of us, that model is somewhere in the middle, not living to survive, but also not forgetting to put up a fight once in a while. Humans live to solve problems.
If you’re a man. Like thousands of other men, you probably seek tomorrow to be even better than today. Enough money to get you by comfortably until the end of the month, a girl who sincerely loves you and a life that give you the perfect compromise between love and necessity. You will find compromise at 20, 30 and even 40 years, but each time it will be different. You will realize that your life, the good and the bad, is the sum of a bunch of lines, which represent experiences. After each relationship, draw the line. After each job, and after each bump in the road you will find another line drawn. Is it fair to make conclusions, wrong to do them often. Eventually, you think how it would of been otherwise. Then you probably blame yourself (or others) and might even give up in some aspects. Don’t do it.
Men are perpetually trying to understand what binds women to materialism. But the answer is simple: nothing. Women aren’t materialistic but have a innate desire for safety and sustainability, you are that support. Before throwing arguments my way, I will tell you that I believe in sharing, giving up 50/50 in a relationship, but my 50% is different than hers. Beyond her 50%, it’s all you, accept it and get to work. Imagine that tomorrow she comes in with a positive pregnancy test. Then what? In general, arguments which have to do with a relationship are mostly about pride and ego. Fight your own ego before bringing it up at the relationship. It’s our worst enemy. For everything else, money will answer all your sustainability questions.
Women. You may find them at times so naive, and other too strong. But never uninteresting. Yeah, sure, you have loved, and your instinct tell you that you could love again. But beyond the interest and pleasure of seeing a woman as a lady and a mistress, the time comes when you might see her as wife. And as a mother. And as a friend. Now think about whether they deserved all the years of searching for the “right man” and then comes the moment, you realize that yes, they deserved it, because they have found you. Now we understand that the past is one person’s gift and the future is the destiny of two people who become one. You love her and understand that … it couldn’t be anyone else but her in your life.
If we look at a man’s life over the years, we realize that his whole life is a journey. The most beautiful moment is when you take your time, with patience, and realize that you are next to the one person, the one you love. So there you have it, without drama, be the master of your life. Handle failures and shortcomings as a man, as everyone will experience them. Work smart, not hard. Do one thing at a time. Travel the world, learn who you are, and the ideal person you can become. Build memories, and remember them when you are old.
Life is one. Don’t search for life’s limits. Make money. Love one woman. Travel.